Brutal Honesty

I realized I am brutally honest. I thought honesty was one of my best qualities but it may also be my worst. I believe that if you ask someone a question that you think the answer they give may hurt, then you should be prepared to accept the answer.  I was asked by a guy if I thought he was physically attractive and I crushed him by telling him NO. I then proceeded to tell him there are many qualities about a person that can make a person attractive besides just looks.  Have you ever met someone drop dead gorgeous but their personality and demeanor was so awful that it changed their appearance completely? I know I have.  Although he said my truth hurt he valued my honesty.  I know there is a way of answering honestly by not being so blunt but this is very difficult for me.

About BonnyS

I am a 29 year old divorced mother of a beautiful baby girl named Emma. Even though I love being a self employed massage therapist; I've chosen to go back to school to obtain a career as an Occupational Therapist. I thought it would be best to have a job that has a stable paycheck that will provide security for my daughter and I. Over ten years since I've been in college, so I'm a little overwhelmed but also up for the challenge.
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