I realized I am brutally honest. I thought honesty was one of my best qualities but it may also be my worst. I believe that if you ask someone a question that you think the answer they give may hurt, then you should be prepared to accept the answer. I was asked by a guy if I thought he was physically attractive and I crushed him by telling him NO. I then proceeded to tell him there are many qualities about a person that can make a person attractive besides just looks. Have you ever met someone drop dead gorgeous but their personality and demeanor was so awful that it changed their appearance completely? I know I have. Although he said my truth hurt he valued my honesty. I know there is a way of answering honestly by not being so blunt but this is very difficult for me.
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