You can wilt and not wither.
Certain flowers are known to wither in the hot sun, but selective breeds come back in the evening and display their brilliant colors. Like the plants, I have a tendency to retract myself when I am weak only to come back in full force, showing myself for what I really am. Things happen. Not all of them are horrid, but each and every moment shapes you for the future. I would not be myself without some trial and tribulation. You can wilt and not wither.