Author Archives: BonnyS

About BonnyS

I am a 29 year old divorced mother of a beautiful baby girl named Emma. Even though I love being a self employed massage therapist; I've chosen to go back to school to obtain a career as an Occupational Therapist. I thought it would be best to have a job that has a stable paycheck that will provide security for my daughter and I. Over ten years since I've been in college, so I'm a little overwhelmed but also up for the challenge.

Wisdom

Wisdom is what is obtained through living; it can be learned or innately acquired. Quote by Reinhold Niebuhr – “God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and … Continue reading

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Realization

A friend of mine was verbally abused by her mother. She would be told that she was stupid for making a B on a test. We were tom boys and choose to dress in jeans and tee-shirts. My friend’s mother … Continue reading

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Recharge

I believe it is important for children to have down time. It is essential for the hippocampus, which is a part of the brain associated with memory, to recharge so that it can work more efficiently. Today more education is … Continue reading

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Habit

I use slang or improper English most of the time. My parents are high school dropouts so the proper use of the English language was not used in our household because of plain ignorance. Although I try to use the … Continue reading

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Lust

To see someone from a distance who takes your breath away, your palms start getting sweaty, heart starts pounding in your chest faster and faster, then the butterflies hit your stomach; this person is meant for you. Just look how … Continue reading

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Millions have at least one!

I can be hard or soft. I can be any shape, size, or color. I have been around for generations. I travel everywhere usually with women. I am cared for with gentle care. I am replaceable. Men and sometimes women … Continue reading

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Brutal Honesty

I realized I am brutally honest. I thought honesty was one of my best qualities but it may also be my worst. I believe that if you ask someone a question that you think the answer they give may hurt, … Continue reading

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Family Structure Differences

Divorce is a controversial issue regarding the best interest of the child; differences as well as similarities are apparent in each of the family structures contributing to the emotional, social, and economic wellbeing of the child. “Although children are about … Continue reading

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Divorce can benefit children

In some situations, divorce can be beneficial for the children of the marriage. The number one job requirement as a parent is to provide safety for your child. If the spouse threatens you or the child’s life/ wellbeing, get out. … Continue reading

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Back on track

Life seems to take many detours.  After high school back in ninety-seven I started college at North Harris; the goal was to become a dental hygienist.  Impatience grew strong so I decided to get my foot in the door and … Continue reading

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